cutlass 3.9 update (#2255)

* cutlass 3.9 update

* rebase

* fixes out of shared memory for blockwise Blackwell

* doc format

* fix issue 2253

* disable host ref by default

* fix sm120 smem capacity

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Co-authored-by: yuzhai <yuzhai@nvidia.com>
Co-authored-by: Haicheng Wu <haichengw@nvidia.com>

python/cutlass/library_defaults.py

@@ -568,6 +568,9 @@ class OptionRegistry:
     def __init__(self, target_cc: int):
         self.registry = {}
 
+        if target_cc > 90:
+            raise Exception(f"Unsupported compute capability {target_cc}. The CUTLASS Python interface only supports compute capabilities up to 90.")
+
         gemm_kinds = [cutlass_library.GemmKind.Universal, cutlass_library.GemmKind.Universal3x]
         operation_kinds = [cutlass_library.OperationKind.Gemm, cutlass_library.OperationKind.Conv2d]
         # Construct options for each CC